Why is our first inclination as women to tear each other down?

Chelsea and Layton explore how insecurity, comparison, and pornography intersect in the lives of many women. Chelsea shares how betrayal trauma intensified existing insecurities and led her to view other women as a threat rather than fellow image-bearers of God. Together, they unpack the cultural pressures surrounding beauty, sexuality, and worth, discussing how pornography and modern culture often reinforce the idea that a woman’s value is tied to her appearance. They also offer practical and biblical tools that helped Chelsea find freedom from comparison and begin elevating other women instead of competing with them.